I have always loved this ancient Hebrew/Arabic tale. This story is dear to me because it reminds me of my two sons. If you read the end of the post you will see why.
Once many years ago, a very wealthy, widowed farmer, who knew he was dying, divided his fields between his two sons, Jonah and Micah. The father of these two sons soon died. His two sons grieved his passing as was appropriate and proceeded with their lives, planting the crops of grain on the inherited land.
Each son’s farm was equal in size and on opposite sides of a large mountain. Each son grew to manhood and worked his own farm. Jonah married and soon had six children. Micah never married.
One night Micah was looking at his bountiful harvest of grain, which he had just stored in his barns. He began to think of his brother, Jonah who had to support his wife and six offspring.
Soon these were his thoughts: “It is not fair that the fields be divided equally because Jonah needs so much more than I do to support his family. Tonight I will take a large load of grain to his barns to increase his profit when he sells it the next day. Then he will have more money to support his family in the future.”
So that night, Micah hitched up the oxen to his wagon; loaded the wagon with grain till it was full and proceeded around the mountain that divided the two farms.
About the same time Jonah, was looking at his bountiful harvest of grain, which he had just stored in his barns. He began to think of his brother, Micah, who had no children.
Soon these were his thoughts: “It is not fair that the fields be divided equally because Micah has no sons or children to take care of him when he is old. Tonight, I will take a large load of grain to his barns and that will give him a larger profit to set aside for his aging years.”
So that night Jonah hitched up the oxen to his wagon; loaded the wagon with grain till it was full and proceeded around the mountain that divided the two farms but used the opposite side of the mountain from his brother.
The next morning, each looked at his stores of grain and puzzled over how much grain there still was in their respective barns. Each decided to take a larger wagon of grain that night to the other brother’s storage barns. Each took the opposite side of the mountain to the other brother’s farm and deposited the grain as planned.
Again the following day each brother pondered what this could all mean. Each brother decided to take the grain one more time to his brother’s barn. This night they both chose to go over the top of the mountain.
As they each, with their loaded, oxen drawn wagons, reached the top of the mountain, they heard someone approaching and wondered who was coming toward them. Soon the moon’s light revealed the face of each brother to the other. They both dropped the reins of the oxen and ran into each other’s arms with tears of joy for they the great love between them. Then they each knew that they would never go lacking for help or support. They knelt and thanked God for the blessing of a brother’s love and promised to always help each other in times of need.
It is said that God saw the deeds of these brothers that night and wept tears of joy because of the greatness of the love between the two brothers.
My Two Sons
My first son, I’ll call Micah, is about to marry a wonderful woman next week. I am thrilled and overjoyed by the love, strength, and support they give each other. I have a second son, I’ll call Jonah, whom I adopted, earlier this year. He has been married about twelve years to a wonderful woman also and they have a beautiful baby.
The story of my two sons’ relationship is this. While Micah was in high school, Jonah was in junior high. At different times they each spontaneously helped each other when one was confronted by bullying or meanness from other kids on the school bus on the way to and from school.
Jonah had a difficult childhood and did not receive the love he should have gotten from his parents. He came home with Micah many times after school. I fixed snacks for him and treated him like a second son when he came over. He and Micah called each other “Bro” since those days in high school. Jonah also called me, Mom.
My husband and Jonah talked on the phone many times when I was at work on the night shift and helped him learn to think about things, how to study and gave general advice. Jonah loved my husband like a father. Later Jonah married and he and his wife went to college for their education.
Advance the clock to years later. Jonah and his wife settled east of my home. My husband died several years ago as well as did Jonah’s parents. Micah and I agreed at my husband’s funeral that someday I would make Jonah formally part of our family; which I finally did earlier this year. So now I am blessed with two sons, two daughters, and now a grandson. Each son and his family will always be family to the other and to me. My heart overflows with love and joy that we all have each other to claim as family.
Micah and Jonah will have each other and their families for support and help in times of hardship and pain as well as time of joy and success. I know too that when I am old, my care will not be the heavy responsibility of one son, but will be born by two sons and their wives. No matter how different they may be years later, they will always love and help each other. This is what brothers do.